So. Ca Moms Defense Fund

Erin Brockovich where are you?? I need you!!! -- Ok, perhaps not as much as the people of Hinkley, CA. How about Richard Gere in his role of Martin Vail in Primal Fear (one of my all time favorites)---“that man can make anyone look innocent!” . Or Tom Hanks as Andrew Beckett since he’s an attorney who, “loves the law because every now and again you get to be a part of Justice being done! “ (Philadelphia)-- Those are big names and I couldn’t afford them nor does this matter seem to be as sensational. I would settle for Josh Charles (Will Gardner on The Good Wife) because he’s.... he’s a very Smart man!--and ironically all I really want to do is to be a good wife----

     For now I will be the best Mom I can be!   Though doing so at this time is rather strained since I have this lawsuit against me that I must DEFEND, (If I do not answer to it then I could lose by default. Of all the things I have learned from my divorce drama one of the most valuable things that I discovered was that I can lose and feel fine with it but only if I do so by actively participating and not by losing by a forfeit (default).  If I chose not to defend myself the complainant is seeking hundreds of thousands of dollars which is what he likely would be awarded by default. It’s an interesting matter what’s going as one can sue anyone for anything but the question remains will they prevail, can they prove it? And can they recover damages? – In my case I do not have any money to defend it nor does the complainant have a good chance of a full recovery (or any recovery) whether that’s by a trial determination or a judges default award.   I am seriously lacking the funds to adequately manage this. This  lawsuit against me is not a civil matter that I can self represent, and therefore I have sought legal representation. Retaining legal representation seriously compromises my ability to pay rent, feed my kids etc.  The complainant is well aware of my financial situation since he was privy to my income and expenses. He should know I cant afford to fight it, nor could I afford to lose it.

You are probably wandering what did I do to be sued?---  I am being sued by an attorney in Sonoma County for Libel and Intentional Infliction of Distress, the case # is SCV 252874 and all (these) matters are open to the public and not of a confidential nature.

On the last date of a court hearing scheduled for my family law matter in Sonoma County on December 26, 2012 I was served a summons and complaint, (minus the ADR- alternative dispute resolution fact sheet) by my opposing counsel. Simply said, my ex husbands attorney of record (at the time) is suing me for actions that rose from our family law litigation from 2009 to 2012. 

During this time period I learned a lot about family law, child support enforcement, criminal law, contempt motions- and discovered the meaning behind protracted litigation.  At this time as I am facing allegations of defamation and inflicting emotional distress intentionally, I am learning even more about our judicial process and our civil rights. I wholeheartedly deny these allegations, and I intend to provide truth, as my absolute defense (for defamation).  I believe the complaint against me is one of those lawsuits where the complainant (my former opposing council of record) has goals that he will feel he has accomplished if ‘the defendant succumbs to fear, intimidation, mounting legal costs or simple exhaustion and abandons the criticism’,  (CASP).

 If you or anyone you know may want to help this poor (single) So.Ca Mom out  (me) it would be put to a good cause---and so unbelievably gratefully appreciated! (or if anyone can provide a loan--my word is good! (yes total pun :)

 

There’s  a great line in  Philadelphia that goes something like this, ‘Pride has lost more cases than lousy evidence, idiot witness’s and hanging judges all put together. There is absolutely no place in a courtroom for pride’.

I gratefully and I humbly ask for contributions of any amount towards defending this complaint against me and to repeat a partial great line from Philadelphia, I can provide for you this opportunity--- “because every now and again you get to be a part of Justice being done! “................

Thank YOU for reading!!! Please pass 'er around! Desperate Mom = Desperate actions! -- there is a paypal button to the right or contact me at vnoble70@gmail.com for alternative arrangements.  

kNow’in it the Noble Way

I do not need to prove myself, I just need to be myself

 That which I have said--Will prove to be what you will dread

 You claim what I've said is a lie, Time will provide all the answers as to why

 The oppressed leads to the depressed, depression can be relieved by genuine confession

 People strive for growth--Especially those under oath

Perhaps I watch to much law and divine order on TV

  And there’s something I'm unable to see

What shall prove to be for me, one more test

Shall prove to push me- into being my ultimate best

I do not spend my time asking why-

Nor do I take an exaggerated sigh, This doesn't effect me any to cry

For I know I live no lie--You on the other hand,

May take some time, because clearly there is much you don’t understand

That which you think is done--

Is in fact just the beginning of some unintended fun

When you pick on another

It’s not smart if its someone’s mother

You make think not much of the accused --this quite often happens--

When personal and professional boundaries become infused

Fate is often what determines our mate

Yet choice is ours to use for hate

Some people are selfish and have unrealistic wishes

Others are selfless and can handle whatever someone else dishes

Sometimes we proceed with negative intention--

Often forgetting everything else that we will mention

Others get caught in the mix-And for that there's no simple fix

*especially when Rules are broken and you can’t take back that which has been spoken

 Striking out at an unarmed one -Can provide no excuse for what's been done

Shooting off to one who's smaller --

Will never make you any taller

Your efforts will not provide you with a feeling of just,

Even after all is settled and there appears to be no more dust

The soul is never ending

The heart is always mending

Law suggests when you are in line--- order shall happen within time

Some FEEL only by the externals they chose to use---

Yet this will definitely only allow you to lose

When you know who you are--

the truth is never too far

Looking forward to the days ahead,

kNOwin’ all that will be said

A win is a win

yet not one accomplished under sin

Looking towards the sun ---because what’s to come will be so much fun

No worries how to go about it

especially when your passions been hit

Lets go….this will be quite the show….Sparks will fly and I can show you why

Once this has been started its hard to be peacefully departed,

The process is often so very long,

With no side completely wrong

Change will come about and there will be no need to shout,

come to think of it, neither party will need to pitch a fit

There will come a resolution with only the ultimate force deciding the conclusion

And when it does comes to an end, you may find yourself with a surprising new friend!